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Grief Survival Toolkit
111 pages · English + French

Grief Survival Toolkit

Practical tools

When everything overflows, one worksheet at a time.

Inside

  • Waves: Riding a wave of grief, What triggers them, My gentle emergency cards
  • Emotions: My emotion wheel, Softening a heavy thought, When anger rises
  • Sleep: When sleep goes away, My sleep log
  • Paperwork: After a death: the checklist, My call log
  • 90 days: Why a daily check-in, One day at a time
  • My plan: My network, Watching over myself gently, My care plan
Digital PDF · $17.95 CAD2 files (English + French), clickable tabs, for GoodNotes, Notability or to print

Digital product: nothing is shipped. Please read the full description before buying: all sales are final, no returns or refunds. Learn more

Need help now? You are not alone. Suicidal thoughts or distress: call or text 988 (Canada and the United States), day and night. Emergency: dial 911. In Quebec, Info-Social 811 (option 2). Young people in Canada: Kids Help Phone, 1-800-668-6868 or text CONNECT to 686868. In the United States, you can also text HOME to 741741.

Full description

Some days, grief takes up all the space. A wave of emotion hits at the grocery store, sleep stops coming, paperwork piles up and you do not know where to start. Grief Survival Toolkit is a 111-page journal full of practical worksheets for hard days, with 90 daily check-ins to move forward one day at a time. No long speeches: concrete tools, ready to use when everything overflows.

When everything overflows, one sheet at a time. That is all you have to do today.

What you will find inside

Who this journal is for

For you who are going through grief, whatever the loss, and need practical help rather than big words. For you who must handle paperwork at the same time as your sorrow. For you who struggle to sleep, eat or function. It is also a very useful gift for a grieving person who "does not like writing": most sheets take only a few minutes.

How to use it

No need to follow the order: open the sheet you need right away with the tabs. Cut out your gentle emergency cards on the first day. Fill in the to-do list with a loved one if you can. Every evening, take two minutes for your daily check-in: after a few weeks, you will see on paper that you are moving forward, even when it feels like you are standing still.

What you receive

The journal works with GoodNotes, Notability, Noteshelf, Xodo and most apps that open PDFs, on iPad, Android tablets or a computer. You can also open it on your phone to read your pages. Nothing is shipped: you get your download link by email right after purchase, and your journals stay in your account if you create one.

Good to know

This journal is a writing and reflection tool. It does not replace help from a health or mental health professional. If your grief becomes too heavy, if you can no longer function day to day, or if you have thoughts of hurting yourself, please reach out right away: in Canada and the United States you can call or text 988, day and night. In an emergency, dial 911.

Because this is a digital product, all sales are final. Please read the description carefully before buying, and write to us if you have any question: we are happy to help.